Let the countdown begin! Feeling overwhelmed? Feeling sad? Feeling down? Feeling, well not feeling at all?
These are common conditions this time of year for many of us. You are not alone. The holidays mean more traffic on the roads, more people in the stores, more family issues that might be brought up at the infamous family gatherings and oftentimes feelings of inadequacy. You might find yourself strapped for cash with too many expectations. Or you are just plain, old tired and don't want to make that big turkey dinner with all the fixin's. We have all been there at one time or another. So how do you get motivated to get out of the slump of the holidays?
First, think about fond holiday memories. You might not be able to recreate them, but make it simple for you. Instead of doing it all by yourself, have a potluck. Yes, I know folks don't cook like you do, so what? Add a little seasonings and it will be just fine.
Second, no money for presents? Give the gift of your time. Make certificates offering to go shopping, clean up the yard, do the laundry, bring a meal, or just sit and chat. We are all so busy, that is why it is important to slow down and think of someone else. Don't have anyone? find a senior to help. You will be appreciated. To give is better than to receive! Believe it.....
Third, get in the car right after dinner and go look at Christmas lights! They are wonderful - from the basic to full out, lit up with music affairs! It'll cost some gas money but it will be well worth it.
Fourth, get to know your neighbors. Make a fruit basket and deliver it with a message of hope. You will have made their day, believe me.
Fifth, (are you getting the idea? take the focus off of you) Write real cards with real handwriting and a real stamp to people in your family or friends you have been out of touch with. Doesn't have to be long - a "we are fine and hope you are to" will do it.
And, finally, (because I could go on and on and on) Do you really need to stress about the holidays? No, keep it simple, keep it sane, keep it sweet. String cranberries and popcorn with the kids for the tree, cut out snowflakes and hang them in the windows, don't get caught up in the marketing media of the holidays and gifts. It could be a joy not a chore! Consider it! And love your family. Even if you don't want too!
I want to hear from you -- what are you doing to add joy into your holidays?
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